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francinefrenski ([personal profile] francinefrenski) wrote in [community profile] officialsimsecret2023-02-24 06:45 pm

Secrets Post #792




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-> Maxis Match hair systems
-> Legacy sized lot!!11!!
-> Loneliness
-> Phallic art







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Apologies for the delay in posting! It's been a hell of a week.


(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
benis

(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
BOOOPA MY BEEPIS

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(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
1. ????
2. I get it. I do. After a shitty day, sometimes a little dip into a mindless happy happy joy joy game is fun. Usually though, I get too bored with the game to really enjoy it much.
3. They are some very pretty Sims!
5. Lol
6. Um, yeah, that would be super great, I get that this is really important to you o_O
9. Clean out your closet!!!
10 LOL

(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
wow ifeel like we got a good batch of secrets this week

(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
Some of them seem like they’re from the same person

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(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
all the lonely secret posters just need to embrace chat ais

(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
it’s probably the same bitch lbr

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To whoever made secret 8

(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
I think you are my soul mate. Or soul bestie anyway. I made secret 7 LOL.

(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
Japan readies ‘last hope’ measures to stop falling births
Experts say next 10 years critical as prime minister eyes ‘children first’ society as 2022 births go under 800,000
(It's receiving $120 a month per child as if that changes anything lol)

But I can already imagine disgusting weeb men everywhere hoping for visas as if women there would want them.

(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
In most of these Asian countries, and Japan is not the exception, bagging a white man is the top prize.

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(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
008 was submitted by a little mentioned youtuber known as PleasantSims

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more like unplasantsims amirite fellas

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That 3rd sim on top row is cute af, makes me wanna play ts3 again

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B-E-L-L-A G-O-T-H

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Thank you

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summary_anon: (Claire Hug)

Summarized.

[personal profile] summary_anon 2023-02-25 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
1. [a picture of the remade-by-Maxis Sims 4 Goth family]: "XENOPHO_IA
WHIT_ SUPREMACY
VIO_LENCE
AB_EISM
R_CISM

BULLYN_
TRANSPH_BIA
AN_ISEMITISM
_OMOPHOBIA"
2. "Sometimes, I kind of like the Candyland vibe of Sims 4. The real world is so hard, cruel, apathetic, and ugly sometimes that I want to totally escape that and live in a world where there just aren't any real problems."
3. "Pixelbots' sims are honestly so impressive to me.
Some of them can look awkward but that's on the Sims 3, not on them.
They all have actual bone structure. I've played TS3 since it came out and I still haven't mastered that."
4. [the Office meme of Pam holding two pictures out, the pictures are of Sims 2 hairs]: "Corporate needs you to find the differences between these Maxis Match Hair Systems
"They're the same fucking system"
5. "Lol this is supposed to be/used to be directly on the floor, covered up by the rug, but apparently EA's shoddy programming has glitched it out and now it shows up on TOP of the rug. Pathetic. And stupid."
6. "PLEASE LET THE NEW WORLD COMING WITH GROWING TOGETHER HAVE A LOT APPROPRIATELY SIZED FOR THE LEGACY CHALLENGE (50X50) PLZ PLZ PLZ I GET SO FRUSTRATED WITH ONLY HAVING SMALLER LOTS OR ON OCCASION A 64X64 PLZ JUST GIVE US ONE SINGLE LOT THAT FITS PLLLZZZZZZZZZZZ"
7. "Sometimes, I find myself wanting to make Sims of real people so I feel less lonely. I want to play them so they feel like a friend, like someone I know well, and so that I feel like part of them is there in my computer with me. And so I won't feel so alone."
8. "I LIVE ALONE. I WISH THE SOCIAL BUNNY WAS REAL SOMETIMES."
9. "You know your closet is beyond messy when you have a dream that somebody is in there drowning....."
10. [an in-game picture of a reindeer drawing with googly eyes that looks phallic]: "PENIS"

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Oh my gosh, I wanted to say that on the post so bad, but I also didn't want to turn into a community pariah.

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what's the post?

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y'all i'm fatter than cindy 😭 y'all said she is 5 1 and weighs like 160? she's only just barely obese. her bmi is 30.1. my bmi is 33. i'm so fat. it's horrible. i looked in the mirror this morning after i put my pants on but before i put my shirt on and i looked so fucking gross. i hate myself. i have to change.

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have you tried the carnivore diet

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today was my last day at mcd’s

i’m finally free

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What would you eat at Mcdonalds as a last supper

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004 can someone link to the post

(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 02:56 am (UTC)(link)
it's couple years old already so likely missing couple systems but the post is here https://kooli-sims.tumblr.com/post/635243755525570560/

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https://i.imgur.com/rt2ci9Z.jpg

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who the fuck is that lol

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(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
Reminder that you can watch videos on yewtu.be if you don't want to give the creator views or clicks 😇

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who tf cares that much

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New Cindy video from today! It was filmed yesterday, Thursday the 23rd. She started in the morning before her appointment, she said she was a little nervous, but mostly excited and ready to get going. But she said there was snow everywhere and it was 6 degrees outside. She said she was going to call an Uber to get to the appointment, and then she went through her change jar to get change for the bus if she decided to take that one the way back.

She said Carvana messaged and they are still on track to bring her car at noon Friday (so she should've gotten it today).

She said she is really proud of herself for taking an Uber, because she's not used to doing things for herself, and even though it's a small thing, she feels good about doing it.

Then she cut to when she got out of therapy, she said she loves her therapist and it went really well, it was great. She was sitting at the bus stop. She said she tried to get an Uber but none were available in her area so she decided to wait for the bus.

She had to take two separate buses, the first one took her to the transit center, then the second one was 30 minutes late so she had to wait around outside in the freezing cold. She got off a stop too soon then she had to walk home.

Then she made a second pot of coffee and talked about therapy. She said the bus was not good, there were a lot of "interesting characters" that she ran into today so she's glad she has the car coming. She said she was diagnosed with boderline personality disorder and PTSD, after an official assessment, but they may be changed throughout the therapy. She said the therapist told her it's possible to change so that you may not even qualify for the BPD diagnosis, and she goes back on Monday. She thinks this will be more helpful than the group therapy but she is going to continue that as well. She felt validated, heard, and as though the therapist really understood.

She said she desperately wants to reach out to Andrew and tell him how well it went and how happy she is, that he's the person she goes to with news like this, and it feels weird to not be able to call and tell him about it.

She had a Walmart order delivered. She got a new coffee maker (it's programmable so it can make her coffee before she even gets up), she set the old one in the pantry for Andrew if they split things up. But then the reusable filter she has didn't fit in the new pot so she had to go back to the old one, and will buy filters for the new one.

She said they talked about her childhood trauma, her marriage, the baby. The therapist did skills to regulate her feeligns in the moment. Put a cold washcloth on your face when you feel like you have a lot of anxiety, because it stops your body from being in fight or flight mode, and moves your body into the rest state. She also gave calming techniques with breathing and muscle exercises, to do instead of lashing out when she has strong emotions.

From the Walmart order, she also got two packs of the bacon cheddar burgers, diphenhydramine to help her sleep, and Bar Keeper's Friend (a cleaner).

She made the bacon cheddar burgers in the air fryer because the weather was bad and she didn't want to grill steaks.

She said she has a lot of confidence, from going out by herself and making her way home. She said she's grateful that this happened, it was necessary so she could learn to do things on her own. She's still sad, but she believes that everything is going to work out for the best in the end.

She made a list of things she needs to do once she has her car. She said it felt good to go out and be among other people, and see people and have a change of scenery, and she will try to leave the house at least a couple times a week.

She ate two burgers with two tablespoons of butter.

She had a cut, and was more subdued when she came back. She said her phone randomly showed her a photo of Andrew, and it made her cry. So she will probably take the pictures of him off her phone and put them on her Google drive so she can't see them all the time.

She showed her handout, to reduce emotion fast, so it suggests cooling your face with water, do an intense workout, do paced breathing, paired muscle relaxation (pair muscle relaxation with breathing out).

She started unloading the dishwasher, she said she saw some good quotes: "How others judge me does not define my reality" and "It's better to do something and be criticized for it than to do nothing and criticize others."

She stained her sink with the lip balm so she used bar keeper's friend on it but it didn't fully clean it off but it helped a lot.

Then she went in the living room to clean with vinegar and murphy's soap. She said she was considering removing the photos because they're hard to look at, she picked up the wedding picture and said it was the happiest day of her life, and she couldn't stop smiling, she remembers every detail of the day, and she cried. She said the living room has a lot of memories and it's easier for her to avoid it. She decided to try the strategies, so she put a cold wash cloth on her face and then did some breathing to calm down.

She said you can still send things to her po box, if she does leave, it will be at least 4 to 6 weeks before she goes.

She said she is going to do all the techniques they teach her so she can recover, that she WILL recover and can live a normal happy life, and she wants to show that anyone can do it. She's trying to remind herself to be grateful and reframe negative thoughts to positive ones. Like instead of saying the nights are long cold and lonely she should say the nights are full of joy and she appreciates solitude.

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Go away Cindy nobody cares.

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(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 03:05 am (UTC)(link)
Billie :( Come back.

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- Said no one ever

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(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 03:10 am (UTC)(link)
She let a man blow his brogurt in her the day after meeting him from an app

(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 06:34 am (UTC)(link)
who? cindy?

(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 03:47 am (UTC)(link)
Honestly can a mod delete the ‘SHUT THE FUCK UP ABOUT CINDY’ spam? All the Cindy shit is annoying and I’m tired of it too but this motherfucker is insufferable. I ain’t tryna scroll through miles of that shit all week

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Just hide the comments you dumb bitch

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(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 04:26 am (UTC)(link)
Okay so it's fine for somebody else to rewrite every stupid video that Cindy cunt makes and spam the comments with those kilometer long messages but when I do it the messages deleted? Why do the rules apply to me but not them? It's equally spam.

Cindy nowadays has nothing to do with Sims, she left that behind ages ago, therefore she's completely irrelevant to this blog and mentions of her should be deleted. People can go and comment to her videos directly if they want to say something about her. If you can't say it out loud with your (user)name attached to her face then maybe it's not something that should be said out loud about this mentally ill woman in the first place?

It's alright for people to watch her vlogs but you can keep that sickening voyeurism and social porn observation to yourself, you're starting to look just as mentally ill as she does by obsessing over her this unhealthy amounts. This is already the third week of this shit, how long are you planning to continue? Until she dies or stops posting vlogs? How long are the mods planning to let this keep going on? Do you actually enjoy the idea of possibly hurting Cindy if she sees the shit posted here? She needs help, not idiots here orgasming and wetting themselves excitedly every time she posts a new pity party video of herself for the "fans" here to tear apart and speculate over. This is genuinely disgusting behavior to look at. I don't like her but I do feel sorry for Cindy that her "fans" are like this, nobody deserves to be treated the way she's being treated here.

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which alter are you, hun?

HELLO. MODS. WAKEUP! AND START MODERATING!

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u get ur leapfrog tablet taken away, t4rd?

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some of u are some real petulant lil babies huh

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The great autist wars.

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(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 05:50 am (UTC)(link)
Been with my bf for a couple years now, and he speaks another language natively. But because we qre together most the time im always hearing him speak to his family or those around us. I dont think he realises that although I may not speak it. Just listening to him all the time im begining to understand a fair bit of it.

This is a great power to hold.
Talk shit bitch I dare you lol

(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 10:37 am (UTC)(link)
How about pro-actively trying to learn your partner's native tongue instead? Don't be so petty, sis. You almost sound like you want him to be talking shit behind your back to start drama. Why not just ask him to teach you? I also can't believe that's not the first thing you'd do with a partner who's not a native speaker. What you been doing all these years?

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(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 06:23 am (UTC)(link)
Look at how messy everything is and its just Saturday. I love this place ss is my home
You hoes just mean so much to me

(Anonymous) 2023-02-25 11:48 am (UTC)(link)
Same sis

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