francinefrenski: Francine Frensky, damager of souls (Damager of Souls)
francinefrenski ([personal profile] francinefrenski) wrote in [community profile] officialsimsecret2025-06-27 05:00 pm

Secrets Post #915




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-> Fairies
-> Enchanted by Nature
-> Tragic Clown
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(Anonymous) 2025-07-01 02:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you, I really appreciate this reply. I am definitely not going to run out and break up, but I just feel really eehhhh about it. This was my first love and my first relationship, and it took a LONG time for me to stop having starry eyes, and now I feel like, is this really what I want? If I hadn't been so naive, inexperienced, and lonely in the beginning, would this relationship ever have gotten off the ground? But at the same time I can't imagine living without him. I think maybe I just need more time to myself, but I don't know how to ask for that without feeling guilty for hurting him. I haven't talked to him about any of this and I know he would be completely blindsided if I brought it up, and that makes me feel guilty. For almost the entire time, I've been the one who is more devoted and invested and I'm not sure how he would take it if I were like, I just need some space.

(Anonymous) 2025-07-02 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
You are most welcome. It's actually a fairly common thing in long term relationships and a hurdle that absolutely can be overcome through communication. I know exactly what you mean about getting into a relationship young and thinking "Is this what I really want when I didn't even know what I did or did not want?" That's almost exactly what I went through as well. I'm hoping all good things for you guys!