andrew is such an insane paranoid moron pothead lol remember when cindy was upset that he never got her flowers so then he got upset because SHE never gave HIM flowers?
"She said she didn't think I wanted flowers, and I was like, maybe not flowers but some token of affection. And she said okay what do I want. We've been together for 15 years and she doesn't know what kind of token gift I would like? Then she said she got me something I asked for in the grocery order so that should count...... Thanks for the apples, definitely the equivalent of flowers on an emotional level. But she didn't see it as giving an emotional gift, she saw it as having to perform a basic task that she thought was her responsibility in the relationship. That I had to prompt her to do.
I just don't think there's any introspection into that at all. She'll keep harping about buying her flowers as I eat a box of crackers that aren't even the kind I really like."
bizarre pothead projection shit what a nutcase remember all the christmas gifts she would get for him as well? she would shower him in christmas gifts like he was a little kid... all stuff that he wanted too absolute deranged manchild shit in the vein of "I should be able to do whatever I want whenever I want (including sex with other women or hours of gooning to porn), I should never have to do any chores or errands, you should give things to me and do things for me, I should never be obligated to give things to you or do things for you, you should pleasure me sexually whenever I feel like it regardless of how you feel, you should never be upset with me, you should never raise your voice to me" this is actually what these type of men believe a marriage is supposed to be and if a woman doesn't follow these rules then they'll say it's mental illness on her part lmao
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remember when cindy was upset that he never got her flowers so then he got upset because SHE never gave HIM flowers?
"She said she didn't think I wanted flowers, and I was like, maybe not flowers but some token of affection. And she said okay what do I want. We've been together for 15 years and she doesn't know what kind of token gift I would like? Then she said she got me something I asked for in the grocery order so that should count...... Thanks for the apples, definitely the equivalent of flowers on an emotional level. But she didn't see it as giving an emotional gift, she saw it as having to perform a basic task that she thought was her responsibility in the relationship. That I had to prompt her to do.
I just don't think there's any introspection into that at all. She'll keep harping about buying her flowers as I eat a box of crackers that aren't even the kind I really like."
bizarre pothead projection shit
what a nutcase
remember all the christmas gifts she would get for him as well? she would shower him in christmas gifts like he was a little kid... all stuff that he wanted too
absolute deranged manchild shit in the vein of "I should be able to do whatever I want whenever I want (including sex with other women or hours of gooning to porn), I should never have to do any chores or errands, you should give things to me and do things for me, I should never be obligated to give things to you or do things for you, you should pleasure me sexually whenever I feel like it regardless of how you feel, you should never be upset with me, you should never raise your voice to me" this is actually what these type of men believe a marriage is supposed to be and if a woman doesn't follow these rules then they'll say it's mental illness on her part lmao